Not sure how to blog this, but perhaps other parents may find it useful.
On the night of the 30th shortly before midnight, I thought I had lost my baby boy. He had developed a temperature in the evening and after 2 doses of children panadol we went about putting him to rest. Normally Jed cuddles up with my wife until he falls asleep but she realised something was amissed when he suddenly stiffened and eyes began to roll. In panic she alerted me and upon turning on the lights, I could see that he was having a fit. The white of his eyes were showing, he was gritting his teeth and he did not responds at all to us. I used my finger to force open his mouth (wrong move but fortunately did no damage) and carried him straight into the lift and to the car with my wife chasing behind. Both in the lift and in the car we were speaking to him and praying that God would not take away our baby...
We felt him fading away in the car as we broke every conceivable law... I needed to save my baby! As we were approaching the hospital, Jed squeezed Ping's hand 5 times, then once more. It was as if he were trying to calm her down. Almost forcing a squad car off the junction at SJMC, I then came close to running over a policeman at the emergency section. We rushed Jed into a crowded emergency ward and by then, his eyes had shown some recognition.
The Medical Officer instructed us to remove the plastic spatula we had used to keep him from biting his tongue and checked him. By then, the worse seemed over. However it was only a long while before he finally whispered to me "daddy"...
He was admitted for observation and to suffered spiking temperatures for another day before finally tapering off. Thankfully Josiah is back home now.
What he had is called a "feveral fit" which can happen to a child when temperatures spike too high. Based on his high white blood cell count, he was diagnosed as having suffered a bacterial infection.
It may not sound like much in the aftermath, but as a parent, let me warn you that it is traumatic to say the least.
In such circumstances, try to bring the temperature down. Sponge the child and use a suppository if you have one on hand. Do not allow the fit to persist beyond 30 minutes. Hence, if you live 10 minutes away from an emergency ward, starting making your way to the hospital after 10-15 minutes of trying.
Josiah was in a fit for 15 minutes... it seemed like an eternal nightmare and for 48 hours after that, closing my eyes only brought me back in time.
Oh, and putting things in his mouth? That's a no-no. The child may vomit and things in the mouth can either cause injury or the vomit to go back in which would only complicate things.
2008 has been tough, but the best gift for us, is to have my cheerful kid back in my arms happy and healthy again.